Really!! Is it necessary for girls?
A girl is the beautiful creation of god which has the power to change the world. These day girls are no less than boys and marking a competition for them. Our society thinks and follows that a girl should get married as soon as she completes her 25 years of age. Does it really matter? I mean the society and the way they think.
Marrying is creating a bond, a relationship between two people whether known or unknown. Marrying someone is only about marrying him but also his family and society. But the point here is why marrying? I guess we all are living in a democratic country and have our own decisions towards our life.
Parents teach their daughter so that they can become something in their lives and can stand at a good position but as the girls start ageing why they become worried about her marriage? Just because they are girls that don’t mean they ought to marry when crossing 25 years of age. Parents should understand this thing and let their girl be what she wants to be in her life.
All girls need to be independent and capable of standing alone for their rights. For me, a girl should first choose her career and then the rest of the things. I being a girl understand this point that freedom and independence is a must for every girl around the corner. Girls are not bound to anyone and are free to choose their steps towards life.
I don’t think it’s liable for a girl to marry after 25 years of her age. Girls become more mature after this age and can think very well about their career in future. Career is the most important thing which a girl must choose over marriage. Once a girl achieves what she wants to achieve in her life then she can think of other things.
Being dependent on others is the worst thing which girls should stay away from. Earning and learning should be the basic priority. Never force a girl to marry just because she is a girl and has to get married a certain point of time. Parents should always support their daughters and let them be free to choose what they want to in life.
Girls should have self-confidence in them and the ability to deal with the world. Our society throws harsh words towards us but we have to be strong enough to deal with them. We can’t work according to what our society thinks. Girls specially should think about themselves rather than anybody else. Girls have their life which can enjoy to the fullest. We are not slaves to follow someone’s orders.
When girls will be independent and self-established they would love their life and their position in which they will be. Your respect and power lie in your hand girls. Career or Marriage? You are the ones to decide what it should be.
Think about it. Is marrying really important?